Felicity's Weight Loss Journey

Hi my name is Felicity. I am 45, married 10 years November 05 and live in a small town in the middle of the South Island. I have been over weight since I was 11 and always hassled at school.

Monday, January 15, 2007

grumpy morning

hubby is throwing yet another sicky...not a blody thing wrong with him that a bit of work wouldn't fix so I am going to have to be extrememly careful today and I am in a fowl mood have had little sleep and now his little outburst so comfort food stay out of my way today if u know what is good for you. ggrr men. I lived in a fantasy world b4 marred that husband would work and take all the worries of money away gee was I ever in a dream world...he hasn't stuck at a job for more than 2 yrs and some he lasted only hours and I have carried the can and worked up to 5 jobs to keep us a float...sick to death of it lazy bastard will be cooking for himself again soon if he doesn't buck his ideas up. Funniest of all of this is his hairbrain ideas he comes up with latest is a new car..of course when I said don't be so fucken stupid and wat are we to pay for this new car with was when the sulking started and now we are so sick can't go to work. Also saying yesterday to get a contractor into do the garden or jungle again wat is going to pay for this oh yeah or the trip to America he wants to do to go to American Choppers workshop not to mention how many times has he asked in last week when are we going to Australia well if we are going to see the new baby after the child is born would be a good idea yes so after Ausgust.
Rant over

9 Comments:

At January 15, 2007 10:24 am, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Oh Hun

He needs a kick in the pants.

The only thing is... is if you keep pulling him out of the shit he will always go there... like you doing 5 jobs.. he knows you will find the jobs and work so why would he worry about sticking with a job.

Big hugs.. it is not fair on you at all!! Keep chin up!

Love CM

 
At January 15, 2007 11:04 am, Blogger Rachel said...

Sorry to hear that your hubby is being a MAJOR pain, I also know someone exactly the same as this and the wife also keeps the family going (with extra jobs).

I reckon that you should start saving for the trip to Aussie to see your new grandbaby (congrats) and tell him that if he doesn't stick to his job (and turn up everyday) that you are going on your own !!

 
At January 15, 2007 11:28 am, Blogger Cathy said...

Nice to see you back Felicity - that new babe will keep you going both physically and mentally.

Know part of your feelings from experience and sometimes husbands alter their ehaviour.

'Sometimes' not always

Cathy

 
At January 15, 2007 11:42 am, Blogger Anne said...

Kick in the pants, trip to Oz by yourself - they have summed it up - unless he sorts himself out!

 
At January 16, 2007 6:39 pm, Blogger Chris H said...

If you love him, you are stuck with him, if you don't love him - why you with him still? Simple. I hope you are feeling better for the rant and rave, it usually helps eh! Did you slam any doors too? I broke a door and smashed a window when I ranted over my useless ex-husband (1st edition). lol You have made the mistake of proving to him that he doesn't really need to work,cos you can... shame that.

 
At January 20, 2007 2:24 pm, Blogger Helena said...

Hi Felicity - Happy New Year! Start the year how you mean to go on :)

H.

 
At February 08, 2007 8:24 pm, Anonymous Anonymous said...

you over your grump yet? it's been nearly a bloody month LOL

 
At February 10, 2007 8:50 am, Blogger Anne said...

Hope all is ok down there?!

 
At February 19, 2007 11:36 am, Blogger Rachel said...

Hello, hello, hello.......
Where are you?????????

 

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